I must admit this was a horrible experience at first, lying to my husband for a week. I had to convince my husband Lucky that we were going on a road trip to Portsmouth from London, where we had to collect a rental car from Stanstead Airport. Anyone that knows me, knows that I'm a terrible liar. Although unpleasant it was a excellent trip, and he enjoyed himself so much. Sometimes in relationships especially marriage, you have to come up with things to keep the love at a high. I'm not saying one must buy a ticket to fly abroad, no, just do fun things TOGETHER.
If you are anything like me you are a person who love to have their partner surprise you and spoil you. But I've learnt that one cannot wait for the other person to step up, sometimes you have to take charge if something is to ever happen. I love to get flowers, chocolate, and yes a massage, but if my partner don't arrange this for me I let them him know. Communication is very important and is key for a relationship to stay alive. In the worst case scenario book yourself a spa day from www.wowcher.com or www.groupon.com with your bestie. Your partner will soon become jealous and try to win back your attention, that's when you strike for your "compensation".
Head over to my YouTube channel: Missy Senghore to see the vlog on this surprise!
